a swiss wedding

So the last (and final) post on our Swiss adventures: the wedding!  
(The reason we were there in the first place.)

In Europe, when it comes to weddings, people like to take advantage of the FULL day.  Ceremonies are often in the morning so guests can spend the whole day hanging out with the happy couple.  Stefan's sister's wedding was no different.

We arrived at the dinner locale (a local winery) around 12:30pm and hopped on a postal truck that transported us, along with the other guests, to the ceremony site (a farm, hilltop church).  After a nice, short but sweet 1pm ceremony, it was time for a traditional Swiss apero: wine, local meats and cheeses, and other traditional Swiss snacks.  From 2 - 6pm, we drank, ate, chatted, and had LOTS of pictures taken.

Did you know Europeans don't have bridesmaids or groomsmen?  Only a best man (the groom's brother) and maid of honor (the bride's best friend).

Around 5:30pm, the best man and maid of honor surprised the happy couple (who has an adorable 8-month-old baby who was baptized during the marriage ceremony as well) with a horse-drawn-carriage ride through the countryside to our dinner locale.

The guests rode the postal car back (a Swiss tradition!), arriving around 6:30 - just in time for another drink (and some more pictures) before the bride and groom made their grand entrance.

Between the copious spread of dinner offerings (lamb, prawns, steak, salmon and chicken - all fresh off the grill) and the lovely, heartfelt toasts, dinner lasted well past midnight.  A normal occurence in die Schweiz.

sending off lanterns with messages to the happy couple

THEN it was time for some dancing.

the mother of the groom (green dress in back) was clearly 

really impressed with how I was shaking my booty

(not sure what I am doing with my mouth)

While I loved all of the songs, the highlight was the macarena.  

Several guests came up to me afterwards to comment on my performance:
"How does an American know the Macarena!?"
"WHERE did you learn THAT dance?!"
"How do YOU know how to dance the Macarena?!"
(One guest was so shocked she even took a video of me and sent to her friends.)
I was obviously beyond flattered and totally soaked it all up.

By 3am, Stefan and I were totally spent and decided to head home to sleep, but I was told the party raged on until after dawn.  All in all - a successful night!

xoxo
KK

a secret swiss day

If you know a Krieg, you know we love a plan.  While I have the best intentions of being a spontaneous, fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants type of gal, I am happiest when I know exactly what's on the agenda minute by minute, 7 days out.  

So when Stefan's dad agreed to organize a day somewhere, doing something - both of which he was determined to keep secret, I was naturally uneasy.

We were instructed to meet him at his house at the ripe hour of 7am.  We hopped in his car and winded our way through a trail of mountainous Swiss villages to Lucerne -  one of Switzerland's most famed and scenic towns.  Without saying a peep as to what was in store for the day ahead, he led us to one of the historic hotels lining the lake for coffees and croissants.   

Post breakfast, he led us to a boat, which proceeded to head down the lake towards the mountains.

After an hour or so of breath-taking views, we hopped off the boat and hopped onto an old, classic steam train.

The train then proceeded to chug straight up one of the mountains (a la The Little Engine That Could.)

 

The train led us right up into the cloud cover, where we enjoyed some vegetable soup and bread, before beginning our hike.  After some serious Swiss hiking, he led us back down to a gondola, which we took back down to a neighboring village.

We enjoyed a quick, lake-side ice cream before hopping on the boat back to Lucerne.

All in all, a spectacular day.

As Stefan's dad drove us back along the lake and through the mountains (and we dozed a bit from the excitement of the day), I whispered to Stefan: "I guess I can do without a plan if the days end up like this."  

xoxo

KK

on empty (and very full) invitations

One of the many things I adore about Stefan is that he can make friends anywhere we go.  On our honeymoon alone, he exchanged emails and phone numbers and invitations to come visit with no less than 30 people (from Colorado to Canada to Buenos Aires to Germany to India).  While I loved meeting every single one of them, I assumed we'd likely never see them again - they'd each be a face in a photo book, a name scribbled on a paper tucked away, a lovely memory in our romantic first trip as husband and wife, 
but nothing more than that.

Whiskey on the rocks (of the glacier)

with some new friends from Germany

on our honeymoon in Argentina

But Stefan had it in his mind differently.
You see, often times us Americans dish out empty invitations we know will never happen:
"Let's do lunch sometime!"
"You should come over for a coffee!"
"Come visit us at our home in Hawaii!"
A lot of times (though not ALL), we'll give or receive an invitation knowing full well it will likely never happen: we're only saying it to be nice.

But Europeans (like Stefan) aren't like this at all.  
Europeans only extend offers when they are serious.  Unlike Americans, when they invite you to do something and you accept ("We should grab a drink one of these days!" "Sounds great!"), they expect you to follow through.  When you don't, they're not relieved, they're offended.  

So when we were on our honeymoon, and some Germans (the very ones in the picture above) invited us to come visit them at their house in the Mosel wine region of Germany and we accepted, Stefan knew we were going to go.  And go we did - visiting them post Karlsruhe in Germany last week.

In addition to being super nice in extending such a generous offer to a couple they had met just hours before, they are a total power couple.  He runs his own software company while she is one of the top wine merchants in the region (exporting copious amounts of Germany's sweet nectar to Asia and the Middle East).  Knowing that Stefan and I are wine aficionados, she hooked us up with appointments with all of the Mosel's top winemakers.

learning about Dr. Loosen's wonderful wines

(in the living room of his personal home)

She also treated us to a top-notch tour of the very vineyards where those top winemakers' wines are produced.

the "spice garden" vineyards - 

one of the most coveted in the valley

the extreme incline of the terrain makes the grapes 

work extra hard resulting in an extra delicious wine

But their generosity didn't stop there.
After a night of homemade wiener schnitzel, pumpkin seed potato salad, local cheese, and incredible wine, they gave us a first-class tour around Trier, a nearby historic town - the very one where they had first met.

The tour included seeing the city's historic churches and monuments as well as a four course alfresco lunch.

With wine.

(Obviously.)

Amazing.

Their invitation was clearly not an American one - it was FULL to brim with genuine kindness and generosity.  Before we left, we were sure to extend them many a non-American invitation to come visit us so we could return the favor.

xoxo

KK

fischer wine & fischer beer

While the real reason for our trip to Switzerland was Stefan's sister's nuptials, we opted to make the most of our transatlantic flight and go over a week in advance.  And because he knows I love a good plan, Stefan orchestrated a week jammed full of activities for us to maximize our time in the Eurozone.  

First up on the list was a trip to Karlsruhe, Germany to visit Tobias and Lotte - two surgeon friends who are SO wonderful (and such jet-setters) that they flew over to our wedding despite only having 3 measly days to spare.  They spent almost as much time in the plane as they did on the ground!

They had given us a weekend of wine tasting in the Pflaz and Alsace regions of Germany as a wedding present, so we decided to use this trip to cash in.  But since Stefan is training for the San Francisco marathon (which is only 1 month away!), we asked them for a wine-free weekend filled with hiking, healthy foods, and city exploration instead.

But as we drove through the German countryside to a nearby castle in a prime locale for hiking, we passed by a Stefan Fischer Winery.  And (if you didn't know already), my wine-obsessed husband's name is - you guessed it - Stefan Fischer.

We obviously had to stop.

And we obviously had to try all 14 of their wines.

And we obviously had to buy a case of each.

After that, we were fully committed to getting back on our healthy track.

But on our way to our hiking trail, as we drove through an adorable little French village,

we spotted a Fischer Beer Pub.

We obviously had to stop.

And we obviously had to get some beers.

And we obviously had to drink them all.

Oh well.  Healthy (and marathon prep) can wait.

xoxo
KK

while i was gone

A lot has happened since my blogging break began.
Besides having the fabulous Charlotte in town for a weekend in Dry Creek, I've been in Florida, South Africa, Palm Springs, and Switzerland, for a second time this year.  I know, I know: totally and completely spoiled.

But - in my defense - no trip was without purpose:

Florida for a much overdue family get-together (my brother's last spring break before entering the real world),

playing gin with pops

soaking up some sun

South Africa for an investment conference,

pre-conference cocktails on table top mountain

power breakfast on my patio before sessions

Palm Springs for a bachelorette,

before a night out dancing

and Switzerland for Stefan's sister's wedding (and some other European escapades).

More on these adventures to come.

xoxo
KK

charlotte

Gosh, it's been awhile hasn't it?
I didn't mean to take such a big blog break, but stuff just kept - well - getting in the way.  And the longer I waited, the bigger the bar became for what I should post about when I finally emerged from my blogging burial ground.  

But today is a day worth reemerging for.
Because today marks the birthday of my very best friend: Miss. Charlotte VanWagenen.

char at range

While I couldn't be with her to celebrate the big day today, I was lucky enough to have her come visit for an entire weekend a few weeks ago.  If you know her, you know she is the absolute easiest guest in the entire world.  She is game for anything (any activity, any restaurant, any schedule), she is totally fine sleeping on the couch (which she had to do because our air mattress has gotten in the habit of deflating over the course of a night leaving its inhabitant waking on the ground), and she's the definition of easy going.  

So easy going in fact, that when our bathroom tub decided to clog while she was here (and by clog - I mean, to the brim, not draining one little bit), and we had to spend 2 hours on Saturday waiting while a heavy-duty plumber snacked out our drain, she pretended as though the event was the most exciting and fascinating thing that had happened to her all year.  (She leads a very adventurous, travel-filled life, so I know it most certainly wasn't.)

Thankfully, the plumber sorted it out and we were able to take showers and get on with the rest of our weekend.  Stefan managed to finagle an appointment at A. Rafanelli - one of our absolute favorite wineries that is close to impossible to get into.  While their wines are out of this world and could easily go for $150+ a pop, they refuse to raise their prices, leaving their amazing Zinfandel at the absolute bargain price of $30.  While that's awesome if you can get them, their wine club has a multi-year wait list and requires you to hand write them a letter requesting to be put on it.  Luckily, our time had come so they were willing to let us new wine club members come show "our extra special guest" what they were all about.

After some decadent tastes, we opted for a European-style picnic overlooking the nearby Sonoma Lake.  

Char carried the essentials:

wine and water that is

We sat and chatted and ate and drank and before we knew it, it was late and time to head home.  The weekend was over before it felt like it had even started - a common occurrence with Charlotte.  Even though she lives in New York while I'm in SF, she's the type of friend who I can not see (or even talk to) for weeks, and then when we get together, it feels like not a single second has passed.  You know: the type of friend whose presence alone rejuvenates you.

Happy Birthday Char! Hope you're being spoiled rotten.

xoxo
KK

sunny switzerland

This past weekend, Stefan and I headed to Switzerland for his dad's wedding.  I was quite apprehensive about the event (particularly what I was to wear), after being scarred from a previous Swiss wedding we attended about a year ago.  For that celebration, I opted to wear a bright red dress (which I thought perfect given Switzerland's faved colors) only to discover that everyone else was wearing greys, browns, and beiges.  I did not go unnoticed.  (Nor untalked about.)  Let me save you some trouble: it is always best to try your hardest to blend in with everyone else when wedding-bound in die Schweiz.   

This wedding - having learned my lesson - I went for a simple black dress with peplum and black tights. 

here

As I was trying to not stick out (especially as the only American in attendance), I opted to not bring my extra large camera nor iPhone to take copious photos.  You'll just have to trust me that the event (and my dress) were a success.

Saturday, Frank and Marlene - two good German friends of ours - drove down from Munich to visit.  They also got married last summer and honeymooned in Hawaii before heading to San Francisco for our nuptials.  The last time we had been together had been the decadent dinner out we enjoyed immediately post nuptials as our wedding presents to each other.

As it was dreary and gloomy that day, we decided to take a trip up a nearby mountain to try and break free of the copious cloud cover.  I decided to embrace my American heritage and bring along my big camera to document the day.

Not the nicest of weather

I was skeptical as we boarded the cable car and moved into the sea of white.  How could we possibly see the sun on a day like today?  After a few minutes, however, the white thinned and we suddenly emerged from the blanket of white.

We were thrilled to be able to explore the mountain top (and enjoy the spectacular views) in the gorgeous sun.

After a lot of walking (and even more picture taking), we opted to lounge on the deck to enjoy some apple wine and strudel.

The only thing that could make the day more perfect was a fondue dinner at home.  With lots of wine and lots of cheese.

Frank slicing up perfectly proportioned bread,

Stefan chopping up garlic for his cheesy blend

And we finished it all!

Sadly, the weekend was short and after a big brunch of Swiss cheese and fruits Sunday morning, I had to hop back on a plane to head home.  We're already counting the days until our next visit.

xoxo
KK